Marriage is a sacred union between two individuals, but unfortunately, it has become a complex process in Pakistan. In addition to the unrealistic demands set by families, economic challenges have made it even more difficult for people to find suitable matches.
The pressure to fulfill materialistic expectations has taken a toll on families, especially those belonging to the middle or lower-middle class. Dowry is one of the significant economic challenges, which families must provide to the groom's side. It is often a burden for the bride's family and can lead to financial stress and anxiety.
Moreover, the unrealistic expectations from both sides make it challenging to find decent matches. Parents often demand a son-in-law who is not only handsome and well-settled but also well-educated and trained in other aspects of daily life such as cooking and cleaning. Similarly, girls also have to fulfill certain expectations of being beautiful, well-educated, and financially stable.
Media plays a vital role in shaping the mindset of young people. It promotes an idealistic persona of both young men and women, displaying glamour, beauty, and lavish lifestyles. Young girls and boys looking for a life partner often reject marriage proposals that don’t match such personas, leading to disappointment and further stress.
In such a situation, dating and filtering have become convenient for people to find suitable matches. However, it is unlikely that these marriages will succeed as they are often based on superficial criteria and not genuine compatibility.
To combat these challenges, campaigns should be run to create awareness about the hazards of dowry and to promote simplicity in marriages. People must be educated to stop demanding extraordinary rich and good looking partners and focus on genuine compatibility and shared values.
In conclusion, economic challenges and unrealistic demands have made it difficult to find suitable matches in Pakistan. It is essential to promote simplicity and raise awareness of the true essence of marriage to ensure long-lasting and happy unions.